Letter from the Prez
Fellow JPs, As I do almost every
Sunday, this morning I looked through the Style section of the NY Times, perusing the wedding announcements.
I’m not much interested in who got married or
where. I’m looking for the “who” that performed the ceremony. I see
many ministers (especially those from Universal Life), rabbis and priests. But
rarely a JP. Hard for me to believe that not
a single wedding performed by a JP was worth coverage in the
Times. This brings me to the main point of my letter.
I think that we JPs should work to increase the public’s
awareness of our role and thereby change our reputation as the officiant of last
resort or the cheapest game in town. I’m looking for
suggestions to accomplish this. As a minimum,
the weddings we perform should be covered in our
local papers. We can ask our couples to do this or offer to submit
an article for them. If you have other ideas on
how to accomplish these goals of increased awareness and status (or
disagree with the need), please respond to
newsletter@jpus.orgSaul Haffner President
P.S. The exception that proves the rule?
My google alert today includes announcements of two JP
weddings in Friday's NYT: one
by MA JP Association member Susan Marcus and another
by CT JP Marie Wiley. Keep 'em coming!
JP Conferences this Fall
You are invited to attend one of three morning meetings (breakfast
included) this fall. We're reaching out to new (for us) towns and
hope that many of you who live in less central locations will attend.
Here are the dates and locations:
Saturday, Oct. 24 Griswold CT Saturday, Oct. 31 Barkhamsted CT
Saturday, Nov. 7 Weston CT
If you haven't been to a CT conference before, come see for
yourself why so many JPs return year after year. There's always
something new to learn and it's fun to network with colleagues and
share war stories and tips.
Admission is $30
for jpUS members, $35 for non-members, same as last year, which
includes continental breakfast, gifts and the program.
Get more details
and sign up here.
CT License Law To Change
Effective October 1, couples must obtain their marriage license in the town where the marriage is to take
place. No longer will they have the option of getting
the license in their home town (unless it's one and the
same). The
reasons for this change -- and its ramifications -- are sure to be a topic at the
conferences. Beth Frugale,
Registrar of Vital Records, will be on hand in
Barkhamsted.
Speaking of licenses, here's a reminder:
Always ask to see the license before you marry a couple.
And always return the completed marriage certificate to
the Town Clerk's office yourself! (Of course
you know that -- but we hear that
some officiants don't!)
Marriage Equality Begins in Vermont
Tuesday, September 1, marks the first day same sex couples may marry in Vermont. The fourth state to legalize marriage for gay couples, Vermont was the first to do so
without judicial prompting. In fact, both houses of the legislature overrode the
Governor's veto by huge margins last April.
JP Association member Ted Bridges has 3
weddings booked the first weekend. That's good but he doubts that
he'll equal the 50 ceremonies he performed in 2000, when VT was the first
state to legalize civil unions.
Another JP Blog
Justice of the Peace Association member Ron Suresha writes about contemporary GLBT issues
and life as a JP in a same-sex marriage at
http://www.suresha.com.
Seeking Dutch-Speaking JP
... for a wedding in November in either Fairfield or New Haven
County. Let us know if you qualify.
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