Ruminations from the
President
Looking Back
2009 and the decade
as a whole were good years for me as a JP personally and for the JP
Association as a whole. What began as “just an idea” has grown to be
a vibrant organization. I know that our success is based on
fulfilling your needs: for wedding leads, for opportunities to meet
(until now only in Connecticut) and converse with other JPs and for
representing your interests.
From the beginning, we understood the importance of
distinguishing our member JPs from the thousands of JPs who are not members
of the Association. The Code of Ethics members subscribe to is
one way of doing that. When JPs correspond with us, they often
include their business card in the envelope and we enjoy seeing the
myriad creative ways JPs advertise their services. Carol
Schweitzer-Schilling’s card recently delighted
me because she chose to say “Member of the Justice of the Peace
Association” on its back side. I realized that we have reached a
point where membership itself is something to brag about.
Looking Ahead
As this is the time of the year for resolutions, here are two of mine
concerning the Association:
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To engage in
activities that will increase the public’s awareness and
appreciation of JPs as wedding officiants. This is an ongoing
need to which all of us can contribute.
To establish
relationships with State legislators so we are aware of pending
changes that might affect our roles in time to influence the
outcome.
Here we
need your help covering all our states.
Please do
share your resolutions concerning your JP business as well as
your
hopes /goals / ideas for the Association.
Saul Haffner
Do Wait Periods Matter: Your Views
"What are these Town Clerks thinking? There is
absolutely no waiting period in Connecticut.
If it's a shortage of staff, then make
appointments, or only issue them at certain
times. But they must be issued when the
couple comes in to apply, providing all is
in order." Karen W. Gaudreau, East
Windsor CT Town Clerk.
"If a couple cannot
wait the 3 days to receive their license [in MA], they can have the wait period
waived.... Most [out-of-state couples] go for the waiver but it does cost quite
a bit. Each courthouse may charge a different fee." Barbara Kahn, Malden MA JP.
"I don't sympathize with out-of-state couples
[who have to wait a day or two for the license]," writes
Hamden CT JP Walt Tucker.
"This isn't Las Vegas. And if couples
'frequently decide to marry elsewhere,' then
clearly they have other options....
I don't sympathize with greed, either: It isn't a business, it's
a public office.
"What I do object to is that the town clerks
clearly had more input into the writing of the law [requiring
couples to get their license in the town where the marriage will
be celebrated] than the JP
Association. The Association needs to do more than
know about pending changes, we need to DRIVE those changes. I
would have thought somebody at the Association would have put
those complaints into the ears of a state legislator."
Volunteers needed! Ed.
New Hampshire Gays Wed,
DC Prepares
On January 1, New Hampshire became the fifth state where
same sex couples can legally marry. On January 1
of next year, all NH civil
unions that have not been converted to marriage or dissolved will
automatically change to a marriage.
In December, Washington D.C.'s City Council
passed a gay marriage bill and the mayor signed it.
Congress, which oversees the district's laws, has 30 days to
review it. To block the measure, Congress would have to
enact a joint resolution of disapproval, which is considered
unlikely. Washington already recognizes same-sex marriages
performed legally in other states, which are Massachusetts,
Vermont, Connecticut and Iowa. Other countries where gay
marriage is legal include The Netherlands, Belgium, Canada,
Spain, Norway, Sweden and South Africa.
"Of 208 weddings
I performed in 2009," writes Betty Allard, Montville CT JP, "107 came from
findaJP.com. Not bad, huh?"
If you are not featured on
findaJP.com, consider joining
the Justice of the Peace Association. and get noticed!
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